Read this and understand. This is key to the evolution of your perspective. It was for me. :)
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TylerDurden
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PREAMBLE – PICKUP IN THE DEEPEST
ABSTRACT. THE TRUE PUA.
A few months ago, in chat with TokyoPUA, the
term “PU lab” was thrown around.
TPUA advised me that I should ANCHOUR the
feeling that the WORLD is my pickup
EXPERIMENT LAB, and that THAT was the key
to getting GOOD. It was funny,
because that was something that I’d done for
a long time, but hadn’t really
been able to devise such a clean way of
articulating it.
Of all the reactions that I get when meeting
people from our internet chat
group, the most common is an utter shock at
how unhesitant I am to try ANYTHING
that I think could be even moderately funny or
useful. For me, trying something
absolutely outrageous is EXCITING, not SCARY.
They say “TD, you are fucking CRAZY”.
WHY?
Because I live in, and project, my OWN
REALITY. I am INTERNALLY centered, not
EXTERNALLY centered.
Look at the PUA . The guy has been on the
internet for years, but has
barely absorbed one single damned thing that
he didn’t invent himself. Of the
few odd things from others that he DID
absorb, he’s literally 100% CONVINCED
that he made up HIMSELF. Certifiably
DELUSIONAL. And YET, this guy is the
absolute pickup MASTER. Does he piss people
off with that attitude?? YES. But
who gives a fuck??? While everyone else is
moaning and groaning, he’s busy
busting his load on the face the latest covergirl
(s) of Penthouse Magazine, or
whatever flavour of the week it is this time..
So what’s the KEY to seeing the pickup game
CLEARLY??? Existing in YOUR
reality, and not the reality of OTHERS. Only
then can you see things CLEARLY –
make adjustments, calibrate, innovate,
experiment, etc etc etc…
Think back to when the name TylerDurden
FIRST appeared onto this internet chat
board back in late August… People were all in
a fuss, like “who the fuck IS
this guy???” Threads were popping up left and
right, like “how did you get this
good???” FUNNY THING WAS, that I didn’t post
ANYTHING that was ANY better than
what OTHER people were posting. My posts
were AVERAGE at best. There was NO
indication or statements from me that I was
good. But many people ASSUMED
success, because of my utter DISREGARD to
the consequences of what was being
posted. Note this, as most people intuitively
associate people who are
INTERNALLY CENTERED with SUCCESS.
When we’re fucking around on the internet,
my homeboy EDDY and I post DUMB
SHIT, like “WHITE DRAGON”, and “we are THE
SHIT”, and ‘ARGHHHHH”, because we
think its FUNNY to see the dumb-ass
REACTIONS of other people living in OUR
reality. It’s not something that we
ARTICULATE, or CONSCIOUSLY even realize
that we’re doing. But rather, a CONSEQUENCE
of the MENTALITY that we take with
us EVERYWHERE that we go. It is not
intentional, but the consequence of an
overall ATTITUDE.
But why post my pickup notes onto the
internet in such RAW form??? Why not
adjust them in a way that will garner praise,
like respected posters ( ,
Formhandle, etc)??? It wouldn’t be hard. And
everyone would approve. So why
not, then???
Because for me, its FUNNY to see the
REACTIONS. If all I got was “this is
really great”, and none of the GOOD STUFF,
then I would LOSE MOTIVATION. My
ATTITUDE is carried over into my internet
postings, the same way that it’s
carried over into the REAL external world.
When people post funny shit like “this is just so
outrageously out of line”,
and “I’m so disgusted”, and “I’m so outraged
at your arrogance” onto the
INTERNET, we think its FUNNY SHIT, because
you are EXTERNALLY CENTERED and
living in OUR REALITY, even through the
INTERNET. While you are EMOTIONALLY
BLOWN OVER, because you NEED TO GET
YOUR REALITY BACK, we are UNAFFECTED. For
a
guy like Nerve1, for a recent example, that’s
why he has to spend ALL DAY in
discussions with Paps (a real life friend) about
finding me (an internet
text-projection on his computer monitor) and
hurting me, and devoting his REAL
LIFE time, sending some guy on the internet
LENGTHY implied threat emails..
It’s not because I’m legitimately worth his
TIME. Nor is “saving ASF”. It’s
because UNTIL he does, he can NEVER get his
fragile reality back. He is ENEMY
CENTERED, and his existence is MAGGOT
RIDDEN SHIT until he gets that EXTERNAL
validation. And until he can let that go, and
find himself internally, he is
forever my BITCH.
For that reason I DEDICATE this latest material
- COCKY as ever so as to remain
true to expected form - to my BIGGEST FAN of
all time, NERVE1, who I can only
HOPE will draw CONTROVERSY and ATTENTION
to my posts with his grumblings, and
thus provide me with some brief diversionary
entertainment.
Because to the PUA firmly planted in his own
reality, the shit-talking cocky
posts will seem FUNNY.. “That guy sure talks
alot of shit.. What a joker.. He
seems like a fucking CHARACTER.. I’d love to
hookup with that guy and wing some
shit.. see what he’s really got”.. They see if for
what it is truly worth –
JACKSHIT. Just some dudes clowning
around…. While to the unsuccessful and
frustrated PUA, the posts will seem “atrocious”
and “arrogant”. They will
become ANGERED and OUTRAGED at way that
is REMINDS them of their own
shortcomings, and their INABILITY to assert
their OWN REALITY. The successful
PUA has not the TIME nor ENERGY to do
anything other than laugh and sift out
anything useful, while the unsuccessful PUA
has all too much time, to DWELL,
and be REMINDED. The unsuccessful PUA is
COMPULSIVELY COMPELLED to spend their
limited TIME and ENERGY fighting a battle that
exists only in their own mind –
all over the internet. Such is also the case with
Ray Gordon.
Such people are like the lobbyists who get
pissed off at EMINEM. They are not
ABLE to see the HUMOUR in it, because their
reality is so FRAGILE. And when
Eminem comes back with “I am whatever you
say I am” – adapting through
escalating and enhancing the behaviour for
which he’s criticized, the lobbyists
are POWERLESS to put a stop to it.
He is ULTIMATELY ATTRACTIVE to women as a
result, because despite his very
average looks, he is INCORRIGIBLY internally
centered.
And many of you will walk away having read
this, INSPIRED, thinking that you
can ACQUIRE or INTERNALIZE this reality-
asserting internally-centered mentality
into your essence.. However, this is both
WRONG and IMPOSSIBLE.
You cannot INTERNALIZE this attitude,
because it’s something that is ALREADY
WITHIN YOU. It’s something that is STIFLED
and CONFINED by your PRIDE and your
PERSONA. In order to get IN TOUCH with that
which is WITHIN YOU ALREADY, you
need to L-E-T == G-O of your ARTIFICIAL
PERSONA that you have CREATED, and get
to the true ESSENCE of what you are.
You cannot ACQUIRE this way of thinking. You
can only LET GO of that which
STIFLES it.
WHY the name TYLERDURDEN?? Is it because I
want to think that I’m Brad Pitt???
NO. When I saw the movie “Fight Club”, I was
INSPIRED. I finally UNDERSTOOD. I
“GOT IT”. I realized that you have to LET GO of
those things that are CONFINING
you, in order to assert your OWN reality.
WATCH FIGHT CLUB, and UNDERSTAND the
MESSAGE of the movie. See BEYOND its
pop-culture flavour, and the cool shit that
happens in the movie, and look at
the UNDERLYING THEME.
PUA COMMANDER ZAP was asked “what do you
do when a chick gives you a sarcastic
compliment?” He answered that you should
STOP ANALYZING what it meant, and
EXPLOIT the opener that the chick has
provided. I read that, and I SNAPPED
INSTANTLY. I UNDERSTOOD that I had to LET
GO of my FALSE PRIDE, and finally
come to a mental place where I could
OBJECTIVELY analyze and understand the
process of pickup. SO MANY TIMES I’d reacted
to potentially sarcastic
compliments by snubbing the chick, because I
felt that I had to RETAIN my
persona. What Commander Zap was
suggesting, was to LET GO of that persona,
and
become TRULY disassociated with the social-
layer that I’d created for myself.
To IGNORE the possibility that the compliment
was sarcastic, and to focus ONLY
on the OBJECTIVE GOAL. What he suggested,
was to become a TRUE PUA.
To LET GO of that social-persona that MUDDIES
your perception of what is GOING
ON during a pickup, is to come as close to
OMNISCIENCE as you get in the
endeavour.
It is the only way to GET GOOD, because it is
the only state in which you will
be FREE to focus critically on what is
IMPORTANT during the pickup.
To STOP BELIEVING that the RESULT of the
pickup experiment is a reflection of
YOU as a PERSON, and to REALIZE that it is
simply the reflection of the
EXPERIMENT. To believe that there is NO
CORRELATION between your
personal-worth, and your GAME.
It is only THEN, that you can TRULY
UNDERSTAND what is going on. ONLY THEN,
can
you actually SUCCUMB to the GENIUS that
BURIED within you.
When you get to that point, when you don’t
feel the SLIGHTEST nerves during a
pickup. Your brain REVELS in the PROCESS of
EMPLOYING the massive WEALTH OF
KNOWLEDGE that you have acquired in your
study of pickup. Your brain CYCLES the
possible solution to every obstacle that you are
faced with NO REGARD to the
consequences that it will bear on your
ARTIFICIAL PERSONA.
Your brain REVELS in the ELECTRICITY of the
PROCESS. If arousal occurs, its
because its part of what you know WORKS,
and that the projection of your sexual
state is OBJECTIVELY what you KNOW will work
to attract. The sex becomes
nothing more than the VALIDATION of your
excellence. A FRINGE BENEFIT, that is
a PATHETIC SHADOW of the fact that your very
act is CONFIRMING the TRUE
CONNECTION that you have with your true
CORE-SELF. And later, as you enjoy the
sex with this new person, you give into the
ANIMALISTIC LUST that is a NATURAL
part of you as well.
THAT is the ADDICTION that is pickup. The
SATURATION of your conscious self,
into your purest ESSENCE.
Not FEEDING the fake PERSONA that you’ve
created as a self-defense from the
external world.
The connection that is established, between
yourself and your surroundings. The
FEELING that you get, when you can undergo
the process of pickup, and NOT CARE
about the outcome of the EXPERIMENT. It
REMINDS you of how far you’ve come in
your personal development – and the feeling is
LIBERATING, in a similar way to
SKYDIVING, or any other LIFE CONFIRMING
activity.
The tactics and techniques are only there to
help you FAKE IT UNTIL YOU MAKE
IT. They MODEL and FAKE the sorts of things
that the purely CHARISMATIC people
would say NATURALLY.
Because it is the ability to WALK AWAY from
ANY chick, that is ULTIMATELY
ATTRACTIVE.
Tactics such as NEGS are meant to MODEL the
individual who is master of their
reality, because they CONVEY such
characteristics. NEGS are “FAKE IT UNTIL YOU
MAKE IT” tactics.
This is why the PUA becomes infuriated with
the over-analysis that we
ASFers participate in. He cannot GRASP why
people would focus on something that
is NOT natural. He makes the analogy of a
vitamin pill not being a supplement
for a REAL fruit, because the NATURAL
properties are not carried over into the
pill. He strives to get in touch with that
NATURAL essence that we all have, by
TAPPING our NATURAL sexual state, and
projecting it. He advocates WILLPOWER.
Get IN TOUCH with your natural essence, and
those techniques that are necessary
for pickup will happen naturally, on their own.
Perhaps and I advocate the SAME. Perhaps we
only differ in our
UNDERSTANDINGS and APPROACH to the
SAME eventual goal. We advocate different
ROUTES to the same DESTINATION. He
advocates WILLPOWER. I advocate learning to
fake success with techniques, and getting
experience under your belt, until you
can NATURALLY do what needs to be done
WITHOUT them.
This is the UNDERLYING MESSAGE that
TokyoPUA endeavours to SUM UP so succinctly
when he tells us to ANCHOUR the idea that the
world is our PICKUP LABORATORY.
CELEBRATE YOUR REALITY. MODEL those
people who are EXAMPLES. Look at EDDY. Look
at . Look at TWENTYSIX.
When EDDY posts “ARGHHHHH”, WHY is it
FUNNY to him???
When peacocks himself to the point of SHEER
OUTRAGEOUSNESS, WHAT is the
purpose??? WHAT does such EXTREME
peacocking CONVEY???
When TWENTYSIX puts out a site called
extramask.com, WHAT is the humour in
it for him??? LOOK at the site. What is it about
that site that is FUNNY???
These are the MANIFESTATIONS of people who
ASSERT their OWN REALITY.
extramask.com is Twentysix’ CELEBRATION of
his OWN REALITY. It is FUNNY,
because as you delve deeper into the site, you
journey DEEPER and DEEPER into a
reality NOT YOUR OWN. For people whose
reality is easily PLUCKED from them,
they will be APPALED by the site. They will
condemn it as attention-getting
TRASH, and SNEER at it. But for people who
are FIRMLY in their OWN reality,
they will REVEL in the JOURNEY that
Twentysix’ pure unmediated INSANITY brings
them on. As you read more and more, and
listen, and watch, you become SATURATED
in Twentysix’s BIZARRE REALITY. It isn’t the
weird humour that is the draw of
the site. It’s the JOURNEY that it takes you on.
The confrontation of the sheer
ABSURDITY. For those SECURE in their own
reality, there is no FEAR that they
won’t be able to find their way back to their
own place. They can APPRECIATE
the site. But for those people whose minds are
so easily TAMPERED with, whose
realities are so easily OVERTAKEN, the site is
condemned as TRASH.
Twentysix KNOWS that people will react a
certain way. Eddy KNOWS that people
will wonder WTF he’s doing when he says
ARGHHHH non-stop. KNOWS that
people will react in bizarre ways when he
peacocks. These are CELEBRATIONS of
their REALITY. Their UTTER DISREGARD of the
fucked up reactions, the
judgements, and the social consequences, is
their CONSTANT REMINDER of their
own ASSERTION that they alone EXIST. They
EMBRACE the ABSURDITY of social
constraints, and TRANSCEND them. Because
every time that an external agent
reacts negatively to their actions, and they are
reminded that they DO NOT
CARE, they experience the RUSH of the
CONFIRMATION that they TRANSCEND all
social constraints. They are thus both FEARED
and ADMIRED - CRITICIZED and
APPLAUDED.
RESEARCH and DISCOVER great men like the
late PIERRE TRUDEAU and WINSTON
CHURCHILL and John F Kennedy. See how they
were universally FEARED and ADMIRED,
even by those who hold absolute disdain
towards their actual policies and
ideas. How did women react to Pierre
Trudeau??? Look at his pictures, and
imagine him as SHY and INTROVERTED. Would
he still BE Pierre Trudeau??? Would
he still be one of the historically greatest PUAs
that ever lived???
MORE IMPORTANTLY, would he FOCUS on
pickup techniques, or focus on HIS OWN
REALITY, and have women as one of the
FRINGE BENEFITS???
This is what is ULTIMATELY SEDUCTIVE to ALL
people, and of particular interest
in this forum – to WOMEN.
This is WHY has ceased focusing on developing
-based approaches. Because
we strive to ATTRACT women with the
INTENSITY of the JOURNEY that we give her,
into OUR reality.
And during that journey, she becomes so
ATTRACTED, that she CRAVES to CONNECT
with the reality that you project upon her. She
may begin by asking “what’s
your name?”, and does EVERYTHING in her
power to FIND OUT if she can CONNECT.
But we don’t give it away so EASILY. We make
her WORK. And it UNRAVELS in front
of her, as she is lead to believe that she has
EARNED it. And that which she
has so strenuously EARNED, she does NOT
FOREGO.
I watch, in amazement, as enters the room.
The crowd’s attention
shifts. People are alarmed.. intrigued..
fascinated.. angered....
They can NOT snub him as he approaches,
because they must FIND OUT -----> WHO –
IS – THIS – GUY - ???
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